Why I Do It…

I became a Life Coach to serve what I feel is my purpose on this Earth: to help others.  

My first ‘career’ was working as a project manager and technical writer for places like NASA, Shell, and Exxon. I’m a great technical writer, but after we lived through our ‘Decade from Hell’ a black and white, regimented world no longer suited. Not that it really did anyway.  

As a coach, walking with people as they design lives they absolutely love has been one of my greatest accomplishments! I absolutely love what I do!  

One good thing about the Decade from Hell is that we didn’t divorce, though we were close. Crawling our way off of that ledge made me realize how little true support there is for long-term couples. And after coaching for a while, I realized I was ideally suited to help other couples!  

And the idea of “The Brave Marriage” was born!  

The idea of taking what I know and the systems I use to help COUPLES design lives THEY love sets my Soul on fire! Obviously, I love marriage (or long-term couplehood) and now I can help other couples who may have been through a traumatic time, or are facing retirement, or empty nests. Couples who are looking down the road and wondering “What’s next?” Not as in ‘what fresh hell cometh’ but ‘another shift’ “What’s Next!”  

I want to help you design “What’s Next” so that together, you design a life you love living! 

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Against the backdrop of a stunning sunset over the water, two people form a heart shape with their hands, symbolizing unity and commitment—a perfect reflection of The Brave Marriage mission.

Our Mission Statement

"The Brave Marriage encourages long-term couples to love fearlessly, live bravely, and design a life they love living. We do this by helping both partners grow—individually and together—so their relationship remains deeply connected, strongly committed, and fully prepared to navigate life’s chapters with intention and courage."

Our Core Values

  1. Honesty – We believe truth-telling is essential for deep connection. Our work fosters open, heartfelt communication that builds trust and strengthens relationships. 
  2. Humor – We infuse joy and playfulness into our approach, helping couples navigate life’s challenges with lightness, connection, and resilience. 
  3. Respect – We honor the individuality of each partner and the shared journey of a couple. We value each person’s experiences, perspectives, and growth. 
  4. Cooperation – Lasting love takes teamwork. We help couples strengthen their cooperation, communication, and problem-solving skills so they can navigate future challenges together with confidence and connection. 
  5. Openness & Vulnerability – We create a space where authenticity thrives. Our work encourages couples to embrace their true selves, express emotions without fear, and deepen their connection. 
  6. Vision – We believe love flourishes when couples dream and grow together. We help couples design a life they love living by aligning their values, aspirations, and purpose.